Category: Let's talk
At last my love is out of hospital it's a huge relief to have her home and we have spent all day together, just supporting each other,and doing very little...
Well, good. It takes small steps sometimes. remember that. Take care and know that you, Ardeth and therest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carla
Thank you Carla you are a star pal..we are taking very small steps but for now, there are no directions...
That's a relief. I imagine the healing would have been hard enough without the permanent reminder of the hospital. Thinking of you both, Erin.
Thank you Erin..it certainly was a strain, but the nurses ect have been fantastic,we can't fault them
im sooo happy for your family alex, my prayers are with you.
Normally stay in one night after an early miscarriage, not three weeks eh those beds are needed....
Love4all thank you pal I'm grateful and we have been touched by the good wishes
come to think of it, you only stay in 6 days after a heart bypass so god knows what was going on...
they like to get you up and about as soon as poss. you see, if helps one to recover.......
Hmm, I have to find this kind of strange as well, no offense to goblin, but eehm my sister has given birth to 4 kids, she's never stayed longer than 4 days in the hospital, my mom had a miscarriage and it was an overnight stay, 2 to 3 weeks seems very strange, I stayed a week after a major surgery that took over 4 hours to perform .. was there something else wrong with her?
I have to agree with WB. It is strange, but we may not know the entire story. Let's let Goblin say or not say if there was something else.
when I gave birth I was in hospital for three days, and even that is longer than usual in this country you can opt to leave hospital 6 hours after giving birth provided there are no complications. An aunt of mine went in for a histerectome and even she was only in hospital for a week,.
Whoo! That must have been rough. They keep mothers for like two days, because the baby could develop something or have some kind of infection.
well as a rule they keep you in overnight with your first baby, but with a second you can have what they call a short stay, which is just 6 hours. here though we get midwife care at home - the midwife comes to see you at home and is on 24 hour call so if there are any problems it's .. not a problem if you get my meaning. I know in the states though they tend to use more obstitricians than midwives.
Yeah! You stay at the hospital until they run all the tests and stuff.
ohh for feck's sake Wildebrew is your sister diabetic, probably not and no Wildebrew, I wil not go into the reason why, you would only use that as ammunition to provoke me..
well coming into this discussion at this stage goblin i'd have to say that wildebrew's post sounded like a well worded queery while your post actually sounded like the provication!
really it sounded very judgemental and downright accusatory
lol. i've just read it again! are we reading a different post perhaps? no matter how many times i read it it just seems like a reasonable question to me! he states instences from personal experience! then goes on to ask a question! what exactly is he supposed to be accusing you of?
Oh boy! More drama on the boards.
Goblin, face the facts...if you are going to make stories up at least make them believable. We all know that in this day and age people are chucked out of hospital as soon as they can leave their beds practically. Early miscarriages are incredibly common and, speaking from personal experience, I know that you will only spend at most one night in hospital afterwards. Even if she is diabetic, that can easily be managed at home via the GP and would certainly not necessitate a three week stay in hospital. As I said earlier I can't think of many conditions that would...
<grin> I agree with harp 100%. My question was not meant offensively and if you had a good explantion you would simply write it out (or choose not to) and, oddly enough, no my sister is not diabetic but my aunt is extremely so (was actually, sadly she died early) so I know a lot about diabetic patients and their conditions and how their lives are affected so that won't really help much. Nothing I've seen indicates a 3 week stay in hospital, I can think of one condition that might warranty it, know of it from a friend, but, well, there may be more out there.
I don't really care anyways, but I just find these posts very strange (and if I say so out loud it actually is not accusatory) after all if you lead such an interesting/different type of life and post about it on the boares wouldn't you be happy to get questions and explain.
Why should I justify everything I say with every minute detail hmmm I would not have treated you this way ..however the mistake you and several other's made, was to listen to that imbecile who posted directly above you,when will you eejits learn!..
And as to whether or not, you found the 3 week stay strange or otherwise,is completely irrelevant to me..
Goblin
Ok, here is the odd thing. I was just trying to piece together the story of the last 3 weeks from your posts, just out of curiosity and it is simply making no sense to me.
You say "the children" which I guess is your son and your brother's son, you say they haven't been around for 3 weeks, yet you said in a post about 10 days ago that your brother's kid uttered a bad curse word at age 18 months and then someone pointed out you talked about his second birthday in an old post, then I thought your brother was in Russia or something, and then 3 weeks because of a miscarriage just sounded strange.
Again, it's very simple, you're the only one who posts this level of detail on the boards but following the posts is just not making muchlogical sense at all, I'm not calling you a liar or anything but to me reading those posts just doesn't add up to a coherent story and, sure, I might be missing a thousand details that would make it so so that's why I am asking, after all if you didn't want anyone to erspond toyour posts in any way or show any interest you wouldn't post them, so I don't see it as offensive if someone actually does ask the questions, sorry if you see those tings differently.
cheers
-B
I know where you are comin from Goblin. When I was younger, I felt like I had to spill my guts about everything I said and did, and that's no way to live.
Best read my post again Goblin, definitely not the post of an 'imbecile' I think, unlike most of yours it makes perfect sense.
Best read my post again Goblin, definitely not the post of an 'imbecile' I think, unlike most of yours it makes perfect sense.
It's good for you that she's out of hospital. Shame you weren't there for all that time, We wouldn't have had to read your lies and then be insulted for prooving them to be untrue rather than be given deesent answers. Oh, and, You seem to detest people asking you about your personal life and expect them to accept your views, but you never care that we detest having to read about your life.. Basically expect to be responded to in ways you don't like if you continue to shove your personal life down our throats. Hay if you shoved it down the throat of one of the characters you talk about regularly, then you may end up choking them, then we may get another post saying that one of these people is in hospital from you. Point is ... don't shove your life down other peoples throats because nobody cares about your life right?